This Is What I Think If My Boyfriend Bought a Sex Doll

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BF Sex Doll Article - Photo of a Couple Laying in Bed TogetherThat’s a pretty good question to ask because ever since I’ve started writing for Earth Erotic, I’ve been asking myself the same thing.

As I’ve stated briefly in my previous blog (What It’s Like As a Woman To Write For a Sex Doll Website), these perfect, Barbie-like creatures somewhat magnify my insecurities. However, I also have an understanding that sex dolls are made to be perfect.

It’s not a personal insult to women. Real women have always spent money to be perfect, even before the manufacture of sex dolls. Makeup, Botox, plastic surgery, Spanx…the list is endless. Sex dolls aren’t to blame for the insecurities women have about themselves. They just make them more…complicated.

And I guess my answer is complicated, too.

In a nutshell, my answer is that I don’t know what I would do if my boyfriend bought a sex doll.

Looping back to the insecurity thing, I would probably ask him first off if it was because of me. I think that’s just my natural reaction as a woman. Am I not skinny enough? Are my boobs or ass not big enough? What’s the fucking deal?

If I were a psycho bitch, I might burn the damn thing.BF Sex Doll Article - Overly Attached GF Meme Blank Template

But thankfully, I’m not, and I think I would try and have a little bit of fun. I mean, my boyfriend bought it, it’s here, I may as well either ignore it or make the best of the situation.

It would help the situation is if I liked the doll’s name. If it was a name I disliked, I think maybe it would make it harder to adjust. Since I didn’t purchase her, I don’t have much of a say in her namesake, but if we’re going to be sharing my boyfriend, I think my opinion matters a little bit.

If she’s going to be living under our roof, she’s going to be a part of the relationship. So I think in that regard at least, I deserve a little bit of a say in her name. But maybe that’s just some psycho craziness seeping out. But the fact that I’m at least trying to be receptive to my boyfriend’s new sex doll at least says that I’m not a complete bitch.

Because I’m a girly-girl at my core, I think the thing I would be the most excited about is picking outfits out for the doll. It probably plays into the whole playing with Barbies as a kid or doing hair and makeup with my childhood girlfriends.

Maybe I’ve never quite let those notions go because I think I would be super excited to try out new styles of clothes or makeup on the doll. One day I could do a cyberpunk style, the next I could make her up to look like a 1920s flapper. The possibilities would be endless.

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The next part is…

Taking myself out of the situation, a sex doll might be an opportunity to have a threesome of sorts without a third mucking up the emotional gears between partners.

Some couples are naturally spicier than others, and a doll wouldn’t be problematic. However, not every relationship is like that, and a sex doll may only serve as a point of contention.

There are stories of couples who visit sex doll brothels because they want to have a threesome without actually having a threesome. It isn’t outside the realm of possibility.

I don’t believe in kink-shaming so if you’re in a relationship and you have a sex doll that you and your partner use together, then more power to you. It’s all about what works for you and yours.

I know that for myself, I would try and make it work, but I don’t know how long I could hold up that mentality.

I asked a couple of my girlfriends that their opinion was, and received mixed reactions.BF Sex Doll Article - Zoey Deschanel in New Girl Awkward GIF

One said she might laugh at first because they aren’t “that couple,” but it’s whatever works for you (and if you are “that couple,” that’s fine, too). Basically, she didn’t consider it cheating in the slightest.

Another said she’d be pissed, because what man would need a sex doll when he has a partner to be intimate with? And a third said she would be weirded out and probably have to rethink the relationship.

In the end, it comes down to the individual couple, and mutual respect for one another’s wishes and feelings.

In the meantime, I hope I was able to answer the question in a way you found fulfilling. I think that if you’re in a relationship, especially a long-term one, it is imperative to consider your partner, and have a healthy discussion where both sides are understood.

These opinions are just my own, and I can’t speak for all women. I don’t feel right by saying that all women, or even most of them, would feel this way about this particular topic. So take away from this post what you will.

I’ve written previously about topics along these lines, such as in this article, “What It’s Like To Write For A Sex Doll Website,” and other things like how society’s taboos of sex will break down as AI and sex dolls become more developed.

In the meantime, stay excellent and have a fantastic day. 🙂

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13 thoughts on “This Is What I Think If My Boyfriend Bought a Sex Doll

  1. dirtydustin says:

    I think its nice of you to try and give him the benefit of the doubt, its good that anyone would be willing to communicate about sex dolls if a partner wants one, I can see how it is a tough subject though.

  2. a-a-ron says:

    Wow again, your honesty is appreciated. It’s hard to picture what would happen in real life, it’s good you’d at least give it a try. Of course, discussion is key and consent is even more important.

  3. l_potluck says:

    Oh I’d love to have a threesome with my boyfriend and a doll… It’d be so liberating and I wouldn’t have to worry about the third person judging!

  4. batman says:

    I’d like to see him bring a doll and see your reaction in real life I hope you’d be as good to him as you make yourself out to be

  5. jollygreengiant says:

    Those pictures in this were perfect lol. Good post, ignore these people being rude I think it’s at least good of you to be open minded

  6. jessica says:

    I saw this post because I was trying to find some advice. My bf asked me a while ago what I would think. I thought he was kidding but I think he was serious. I try to be positive and open but it was like, Why? I wouldn’t be opposed to it but I’m not really for it, either.

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