Shop Forum Future of Sex Why happy couples stop having sex?

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    • #21192
      michael.lse
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      A slow-down in sex as a relationship progresses is nothing new – but have you ever wondered why this happens?

      When a couple first meets and falls in love they can’t get enough of each other and enjoy ridiculous amounts of sex, which then turns into a regular amount of sex and then into minimal amounts over time. Here’s why…

      Stress
      This is probably one of the biggest excuses, and whether stress is work- or family-related, it really takes its toll on our sex lives.

      Partners from the past
      Research has found that the more sexual partners a person has before marriage, the lower the quality of sex, communication and relationship stability is during a marriage.

      Comparisons
      When it comes to your sex life, it’s best not to compare yours to anyone else’s.

      How frequently you have sex and what you enjoy are personal, and if you and your partner are happy and enjoying the ways you have sex, then that’s all that really matters.

      Kids
      It’s no secret that kids can prove a death knell for the amount of sex a couple enjoys.

      Interestingly, the touch from small kids who are seeking attention releases oxytocin. While this helps to bond both parents and child, it also suppresses dopamine and libido – bad news for your sex drive.

      Actually, life should be fun, you need a good atmosphere, make everything fun, don’t make everything nervous, especially for man.

      Life is better with sex!
      good luck

    • #23119
      andrewpop69
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      I’d say one common reason could be because of Life transition. I used to like sex but then we had kids and our careers picked up, something did change.

    • #24518
      mandown4574
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      sometimes we hav sex not because we want to but out of obligation

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